Everybody is looking or searching for happiness and want to live happy but in reality the search starts from you. The happiness is not “found”. It’s realized.
Take a deep breath and read the below pieces of advice to know how to start living a happy life
- Stay true to yourself
A lot of unhappiness which makes you force to go against your core, your guts, to be right. Deep down, you know the truth and you don’t want to do that but you do it anyway. You listen to your head instead of listening to your deep down voice that says the truth. Sometimes you convince yourself the risk is too great, or it’s better to stay put, to keep your head down. Staying true to yourself is a challenge.
- Do what you love
To spend time doing things you love is a big things. While doing such things, or working on something which you love and believe in, you might be criticized for that, you might be get discouraged only because people around you do not believe in that. Most of the people give up, either they listen to the people around them or they are busy with working for someone. They gradually lose motivation of doing what they dream of. But later after years, they look back and regret and almost saying “I wish i could have done that”.
You may not get it now but later at some point of your life you will realize and understand what you have lost. Very few people are who really love doing something for their success, rest just keep working for other and living a life with no meaning.
- Create the environment that is right for you
If you live in such environment where you do work just to pay the bills, than there are very low chances for you to grow in such environment. Loving what you do is a part of growing. You own happiness is a reflection of day-to-day, the work you do, and most important how you do that work.
Create your own environment which will help you to grow and make you happy. Surround yourself with people with same mission and also who help you to level up. Never settle for someplace that does not feed you core because there is always an option to find better way.
- Choose your friends wisely
Your friends are your backbone in your life. They support you when there is no one behind you. They are there for you both in good and bad times. One wise and loyal friend is better to pull you up from bottom to top. Your company shows who you are really. So if you sit and spend time with people the who have same dreams like you, then you are bound to be successful.
Friends show their love in times of trouble, not in happiness. Euripides
- Always look positive side
In life we face lots of suffering but one should look a positive side. A person with positive attitude can handle a big sufferings. Life is full of challenges but we have to keep moving forwards and never to give up. Sometimes you may see light and sometimes darkness and all that you have to be positive and develop positivity inside you.
- Create certainty
If everything in your life goes smooth, then it’s boring. If nothing in your life goes smooth, then it’s risky and uneasy.
Happiness is found in the middle of these two. In life process you have to be certain that you know that you have ground to stand on, you are not completely in danger. The best is if you are doing something, you should know that you are on the safe side.
- Be vulnerable
Being vulnerable is something everyone can’t be. We as a society try out better to hide who we are, wear masks and do better not to show other who we are really. But the best in us comes out when we are vulnerable and even the deepest and loyal relationship and friendship comes from being real and vulnerable. You have to show your reality, you don’t have to afraid of showing who you really are. Arts, creativity, music etc everything comes from being vulnerable.
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